Half 1: Males Are from Mars, Girls Are from Venus

(John Grey)_Imagine that males are from Mars and ladies are from Venus. Someday way back the Martians, trying by their telescopes, found the Venusians. Simply glimpsing the Venusians woke up emotions they’d by no means recognized. They fell in love and rapidly invented area journey and flew to Venus. The Venusians welcomed the Martians with open arms. They’d intuitively recognized that today would come. Their hearts opened large to a love they’d by no means felt earlier than. The love between the Venusians and Martians was magical. They delighted in being collectively, doing issues collectively, and sharing collectively. Although from totally different worlds, they revelled of their variations. They spent months studying about one another, exploring and appreciating their totally different wants, preferences, and behavior patterns. For years they lived collectively in love and concord. Then they determined to fly to Earth. To start with every part was great and delightful. However the results of Earth’s ambiance took maintain, and one morning everybody awoke with a peculiar sort of amnesia selective amnesia! Each the Martians and Venusians forgot that they had been from totally different planets and had been purported to be totally different. In a single morning every part they’d discovered about their variations was erased from their reminiscence. And since that day women and men have been in battle.


With out the attention that we’re purported to be totally different, women and men are at odds with one another. We normally change into indignant or annoyed with the alternative intercourse as a result of we now have forgotten this essential reality. We count on the alternative intercourse to be extra like ourselves. We need them to “need what we wish” and “really feel the best way we really feel.” We mistakenly assume that if our companions love us they may react and behave in sure ways-the methods we react and behave once we love somebody. This perspective units us as much as be dissatisfied time and again and prevents us from taking the mandatory time to speak lovingly about our variations. Males mistakenly count on ladies to assume, talk, and react the best way males do; ladies mistakenly count on males to really feel, talk, and reply the best way ladies do. We have now forgotten that women and men are purported to be totally different. Consequently are crammed with pointless friction and battle. Clearly recognizing and respecting these variations dramatically scale back confusion when coping with the alternative intercourse. Once you keep in mind that males are from Mars and ladies are from Venus, every part might be defined.


Falling in love is all the time magical. It feels everlasting, as if love will final eternally. We naively imagine that in some way we’re exempt from the issues our mother and father had, free from the percentages that love will die, assured that it’s meant to be and that we’re destined to stay fortunately ever after. However because the magic recedes and each day life takes over, it emerges that males proceed to count on ladies to assume and react like males, and ladies count on males to really feel and behave like ladies. With out a clear consciousness of our variations, we don’t take the time to grasp and respect one another. We change into demanding, resentful, judgmental, and illiberal. With one of the best and most loving intentions love continues to die. Someway the issues creep in. The resentments construct. Communication breaks down. Distrust will increase. Rejection and repression end result. The magic of affection is misplaced. We ask ourselves: How does it occur? Why does it occur? Why does it occur to us? To reply these questions our best minds have developed sensible and complicated philosophical and psychological fashions. But nonetheless the outdated patterns return. Love dies. It occurs to virtually everybody. 14 Every day tens of millions of people are looking for a accomplice to expertise that particular loving feeling. Annually, tens of millions of be part of collectively in love after which painfully separate as a result of they’ve misplaced that loving feeling. From those that are in a position to maintain love lengthy sufficient to get married, solely 50 p.c keep married. Out of those that keep collectively, presumably one other 50 p.c should not fulfilled. They keep collectively out of loyalty and obligation or from the worry of beginning over. Only a few individuals, certainly, are in a position to develop in love. But, it does occur. When women and men are in a position to respect and settle for their variations then love has an opportunity to blossom. By way of understanding the hidden variations of the alternative intercourse we will extra efficiently give and obtain the love that’s in our hearts. By validating and accepting our variations, artistic options might be found whereby we will reach getting what we wish. And, extra essential, we will discover ways to finest love and assist the individuals we care about. Love is magical, and it will probably final, if we bear in mind our variations.

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